I Don't Get Paid Enough for This

Dear Kosi, happy birthday. You made it to see 28. To be honest, you wasn’t sure if you were going l to make it. You did. So what now? “I’ve been your therapist for some time and I’m just seeing a pattern. From my notes, it looks like you’re out of your major depressive episode…

I took some time away from my blog to heal a bit more. I felt like it was becoming a very dark space because I was in a dark space. However, I’m stepping a bit more into the light each and every day. Once I realized in January that I was 100% sexual assaulted, it…

“He-he-oh” “He-he-oh” In my mind, “Am I about to give birth or something?” Lol As I lay down in my first breath work mediation and sound bath, I never thought just breathing was going to take my pain away. I never understood mediation and how it works. This was the first time I did. “He-he-oh”…

“Awkwardly Finding my Survivor Voice” was written for shock value? I wanted to shift blame from being a “mistress” with someone in an open marriage? I wanted to ruin the perpetrator’s life? I wanted to leave out the parts that made me look bad? I want to “create” a narrative? I wanted…I wanted…I wanted…. Bitch,…

“Did you hear my covert narcissism I disguise as altruism like some some kind of congressman?” Taylor Swift I changed my Instagram bio this week: “The depressed narcissistic writer. Addicted to tequila and working out” The English nerd in me is happily cheering for the oxymorons. I love a good literary device. But, let’s dive…

I love having fun. I love going out and having a good time. I like to be the fun girl. The girl who gets everyone around them to take shots. The girl who is goofy af and can’t stop laughing. I have absolutely ZERO social anxiety. However, LA has been a tough place to make…